a blog of daily updades,info and news to up in my grimore and attch to my book of shadows for my coven
Sunday, September 9, 2012
Do you tend to give to much of yourself?
The ability to give and share time with others, is a wonderful gift. But not at
your own expence or your loved ones…
There`s a difference between giring of yourself and giving up yourself.
If you start to feel tired, angry or feeling
resentment, while helping others.
Take a step back. You`re only going to make
tings worse, not only for yourself but also for the persons you are trying to
And you`ll end up feeling guilty.
Nobody thanks you when there`s hardly anything
left of you.
You need to take care of yourself, trust
yourself, love yourself and learn how to say NO!
You need to accept that you have boundaries.
Learn to know them! And a long the way, others will learn to respect your
boundaries as they learn to respect their own.
Next time you`ll know how much you`re able to
And that is the way it is supposed to be! And
don`t be afraid to ask for help! Help is always near when you need it. You just
have to ask and the Universe will respond.
“Why is it we must suffer the loss of something so dear before we realize what
a treasure we had?
Why must the sun be darkened before we feel how genuinely impossible it is to
live without its warmth?
Why within the misery of absence does love grow by such bounds?